Understanding Resistance to Change
1. Why Resistance Happens
Change can feel threatening, even when it’s necessary or beneficial. Resistance is a natural human response to uncertainty, loss of control, or fear of the unknown. Understanding why people resist change is the first step to leading them through it effectively.
Common reasons for resistance:
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Fear of the unknown – “What will happen to me?”
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Loss of control – “I didn’t choose this.”
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Lack of trust – “I don’t believe leadership knows what it’s doing.”
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Comfort with the status quo – “The old way works fine.”
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Fear of failure – “What if I can’t keep up?”
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Poor communication – “I don’t understand what’s changing or why.”
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Bad experiences with past changes – “This never ends well.”
Resistance is rarely about stubbornness. It’s usually about fear, uncertainty, or lack of clarity.
2. Forms Resistance Can Take
Not all resistance is loud or direct. It can be:
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Active: Complaining, arguing, refusal to engage
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Passive: Delays, withdrawal, “checking out”
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Covert: Sabotage, spreading doubt, quiet opposition
Leaders need to be observant—look beyond what people say to how they behave.
3. The Human Side: Change vs. Transition
Author William Bridges makes a helpful distinction:
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Change is external (new policies, tools, leadership)
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Transition is internal (the emotional and psychological process people go through)
People may resist not the change itself, but the loss they associate with it—loss of identity, routine, relationships, or competence.
Effective change leadership means guiding people through the transition, not just managing the change.
4. What Leaders Can Do About Resistance
A. Listen and Acknowledge
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Make space for people to express concerns
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Don’t dismiss resistance—seek to understand it
B. Communicate Early and Often
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Be transparent about the why, what, and how
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Use clear, consistent messaging and revisit it often
C. Involve People in the Process
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Give team members some control where possible
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Invite feedback, input, and ownership
D. Build Trust
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Be honest, even about the difficult parts
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Show empathy—acknowledge the impact on individuals
E. Be Patient, But Clear
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Understand that adjustment takes time
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Set expectations for the journey ahead
5. Summary
Resistance to change is a normal part of the transition process. Great leaders:
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Understand the emotional roots of resistance
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Don’t fight resistance—they engage with it
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Communicate with empathy and clarity
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Involve and support their people through the journey
Change leadership is not about pushing harder—it’s about connecting deeper.